Thursday, May 13, 2021

Nona dairy

 I was clearing shelf. My new slippers were there. Nona, my 6 year old grandson saw a home wear pair of slippers which I was using in Neiyattikkara.

I put it on thinking of giviny thr present ones a good scrub.
Nona saw me wearing the pair and asked me Achamma, do you want to feel you are in Neiyatinkkara.
What imagination

The hoodwink

 Remembering our driver Shaji, a Mallu Muslim.

He worked for Venu in the early 20s when we were staying in Shanthi Colony, Chennai.
A very smart and happy-go-lucky youngster.
Whenever he used to take me out, he used to show the houses of various stars. Seen the houses of Vijay and Arjun.
Those days Venu used to be friendly with director Kunjumon, who had directed the blockbuster movie Gentleman.
Both Venu and he had once gone to Dubai together. He had even told me not to worry as he will make sure to bring venu in one piece.
Had one day gone with Shaji to pick up some papers from Kunjumon on Venu's instuction?
Shaji was just getting off the car when I happened to see a very handsome man come out of the gate and asked Shaji whether it was Kunjumon. (This was before I had met Kunjumon at the Chennai International Airport).,Shaji gave me a startled look and said it was his driver.
Shaji proved to be a good driver. Then Venu sent him to work for a friend.
One day, the friend's wife said that Shaji was in love with a lady working in a textile company and having 3 children.
Then I got the news that they had married.
The next I heard about him was he had ditched her with his twins.
Wonder how the poor woman is surviving with 5 children!

In memory of my husband's brother

 Remembering the very hospitable couple late Chandru and his wife Subhadra.

When Venu had his bypass in 2006, the hospital was close to Candru's house. Venu's relatives and friends were at hospital waiting for news
Whoever were at the hospital used to go to Chandru's house for lunch. Subhadra used to prepare meals which had the traditional Kerala items. Never once she had seemed angry or made any negative remarks for cooking for so many people. Still remember her endearing smile and her willingness to serve with a generous heart.
Not once but continuously for 3 days, the couple were extremely hospitable.
Venu's very close friend' a doctor had taken special permission to be at his side during operation. It was a great solace for me. When the 6 hour long operation got over and his friend called up to convey the news, all were at Chandru's house. Immediately all rushed to hospital.
All were relieved to know the bypass was successful. A jovial doctor, to relieve my tension smiled and told me, When. Venu's heart was opened, I saw you in it. It did relax the tense atmosphere as all present smiled.
Will ever remember Chandru's and Subhadra's hospitality. God give her strength to overcome her irrepressible loss.

Saturday, March 27, 2021

Service above self

  A born leader

setting a fine example
of service above self
what better than
taking up 111 projectst
to commommorate
the 111 years of
rotary existence
bringing together
members from
around the globe,
to serve the needy
striving to bring
smiles on faces
of the less fortunate
god's work done
on earth
by our own Eclub President,
Rtn Jayanthi. and team
spritely and full of life,
for her, there is no uneasiness even when
wearing a crown
her smile the mirror
of her soul
engulfing all
with a passion for serving the needy.
A Herculean task accomplished
through sheer will power
blessings galore
encouraging to serve more.
May there be more such humane beings
lighting up paths
to provide and nurture
the less priveledged
blessings bestowed from above and below.

Sunday, March 7, 2021

An encounter with a lizadr

 Anothe haarrowing experience.

This was in Delhi. I was frying papad when I chanced to see a big greyish black lizard on the window net.
I panicked and tried chasing it with splashes of water. The poor lizard darted here and there on the net warding of the jet spray.
Then not able to take it any longer, to my fright leapt straight at me. Luckily I dodged and it landed on the kitchen platform and scuttled away.
Good heavens. did not fall into the Kadai. Would have been a gruesome scene.



Another lizard incident

Believe it or not.
Once in Chennai after waking up in the morning, as usual I opened my hair to tie it into a neat coil.
The moment I opened my hair, a small lizard jumped out. It was having a cozy sleep inside my hair. Fortunately, it was not a big one.

Gale Gama

 An Uncanny Experience



Fact or fiction, readers have to decide.
I am a staunch devotee of Edapally Ganapathy, a temple in Edapally in Cochin, Kerala.
Venu used to quip- I think Edapally Gnapathy has left its place and settled here.
This Ganapathy is believed to restore lost objects inside homes and they are truly restorned exactly from the place searched.
But this Ganapathy will not waste time in going out to search for lost items outside.
One has to keep 11 rupees in prayer and offer it to Ganpathy when they visit the temple the next time when object is restored.. Surely, Ganapathy will not mind any Ganapathy temple.
Seeing my frenzied behavior, one day my son said in Hindi, Ek din soond nikhlegha aur marega (one day a trunk will appear and hit you).
It was my wish to visit Kalahasthi.
As providence willed, Venu, Pravin and I left for Hyderabad by road to leave Pravin at his new workplace.
Venu said on the way we will be crossing Kalahasthi.
I was thrilled.
We reached Kalahasthi and saw a baby elephany blessing devotees going inside. Venu and Pravin too received their blessings.
I went and in great devotion bowed my head only to get a heavy whack on my head. My hair clip came off, the hair opened out and I found myself feeling dizzy.
I looked at my son, he simply asked me whether I paid any money to the elephant. I answered in the neagative. He said that it was the punishment for not paying any money.
It was indeed fortunate that it was not an adult elephant, but a calf.

Friday, February 5, 2021

Grandson's pranks

 Today's incident.

Was fast asleep when I was woken up by the screeching sound of the door opening.
Nona walked in and snuggled up to me. Told him to go back to sleep as there was no school or online class.
He pulled my blanked and coverd himself and was soon fast asleep.
I remembered some work in the kitchen and went to complete it.
On coming back found Nona sleeping on the side of the bed and no space for me and my blanket too covering him. Tried sleeping but felt cold, so put off the fan. I tried pushing him a little bit to create space for me to lie down but was unsuccessful. Lay down on whatever space was there hoping against hope not to topple down. Had just caught up some sleep when I was jostled by Nona's scream. I jumped in fright and literally fell off my bed.
But the little fellow was fast asleep unaware of anything.
When he was asked why he screamed, he said he was dreaming of spiders and some crawling on him. I told him his dream made me fall off the bed and he went on laughing imagining that scene.